Love languages- thinking beyond

and so, I do think that a person's love language changes over time.

There could be several reasons. Here are the possible ones:

1) One person who's lonely might think that their love language is quality time.

2) A person who's busy may not think that their love language is quality time

3) When one has more than enough love from their primary and secondary source, they might think that their primary and secondary love language has changed.

4) If one's primary love language was gifts, they might think differently once they have enough money to buy gifts for themselves.

Mine has been pretty consistent. They are:

1) Physical Touch
2) Quality Time
3) Gifts
4) Words of affirmation
5) Acts of service

A was reading a love language books for married couples. I told her that I like to borrow after that. She said it's for married couples. I said it was okay. She still thinks that being gay is wrong though she has told me she doesn't judge me. But she had subtlely told me that I could borrow 2 of her books she bought at last week's service where an ex-transgendered man preached about how God had changed him. Haiyah.
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