When you don't believe in the right one, and you don't believe in happily ever after, it's easy to settle for second best, to take what you feel is good and what is nice without considering if it is for the best. It's easy to live recklessly and take what comes along the way without much consideration. Will you treasure something you didn't pay a high price for? Would you work to keep it alive?
Similarly, when you believe in the right one and you believe in happily ever after, you will hold back and reserve your best for the person you know God has prepared for you.. in the process, you are being prepared for the right one too.
The right one doesn't mean the perfect one. The right one simply means that when it's finally time for you to need to try, that when you lose the desire and the fire you had before, you love enough to want to try your best to keep the love going. And this stage I believe, is best experienced a few years into the relationship, simply because I believe that the honeymoon period must last a few years. That will take the lust factor out of the equation. Bravo if the lust factor will never be lost. ;0
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