Another thing I forgot to mention..

This was the conversation that also got my defense mechanism up. It was instinct, truly.

JS (another male colleague sitting opposite me) to MM (my suspected closeted gay colleague): MM, are you going anywhere for the holidays?

MM: No plans yet..

JS: How come? Oh ya, you got to save money?

S thinking in her mind (hmm, for what reason)

MM: No lah. Save money for what?

S: To get married?

JS: *Laughs*

MM: Get married to who? Get married to you ah? (directing the question to me) you is it, you is it? (laughing jokingly in an excited tone)

S: Erh. Gay marriages are not legalised in Singapore. Haha.

Conversation ends.
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