Dear friend,

I just like you to know that people look at the way you talk and behave more than the number of times you share and preach about God.

I also like you to know that your credibility as a person and more importantly as a christian needs to be build over time with trust and integrity intact.

Also know that people are not stupid. And despite all that you do to prevent them from talking, they do talk and compare notes, so for your own sake, do be consistent with what you say to the people involved in the same situation.

For God's sake and your own, I pray that you get your issues sorted out so your standing amongst the community doesn't drop any more.

When I hear what has been going on, my heart cringed and my heart feels heavy heavy. I am not sure why that is so. I only know that the best thing I can do is to pray.

I don't know if I should feel thankful that I am not involved in this situation and the previous one. Not that I asked to be in the know either. Certain things just happened. But I believe there is a reason why.

I care enough to be concerned, but not enough to want to be involved. I don't have very good experiences being involved in situations like such. I think it is wiser to stay out of this, especially if my service is not required. I will pray that you will handle it well with God's strength and wisdom.

You are a victim of a situation as far as you allow yourself to be. Remember that.
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