So easy wan meh?

While I was at badminton one day, a friend who just very recently found out about my break up which happened at the beginning of this year asked another badminton pal and I: since two of you are single, why don't you get together?

I wonder if that's the way things run in the lesbian world. You meet, there's some form of chemistry, both are single and can get along and have no major issues with the way each other looks, then it's alright to get together. 

Because my mindset about getting into a relationship is for it to last, i consider many other factors so I will be able to give my best to this person whom I have chosen to give my heart to. I usually consider our compatibility levels in all aspects; spiritual- there's always something attractive about someone who desires to know and love God more, one who has a sense of purpose to live out their lives as God leads; emotional- the ability to be involved and engaged at about the same level, I think that's the main reason why I prefer women over men, it is the level of emotional involvement, when mutual, causes me to feel closer to that person; mental- doesn't have to be highly intelligent but someone who's able to articulate her thoughts clearly and think about the deeper issues in life, someone who's witty and able to make me laugh and smile... and physical- because I thrive on the endorphins from exercising and feel lethargic when I don't,I prolly won't last very long with someone who doesn't include regular exercise in their lives.

It is not as easy for me as others.
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