I learnt that there are generally 3 groups of people who have different responses when they share their problems with others; one type doesnt like to be told what to do. For this group of people, the greatest help you can give them is to ask the right questions or present the pros and cons of different solutions for them. They will make their own decisions eventually.
The second type of people would be very eager to ask for a solution and ask for specific solutions to be given to them. The last group of people is like the second group of people. They want to know what you think and what you would do but in the end, they will do what they feel like doing.
When I recognize that there are these different groups of people, I feel happier and more at peace. I also come to realize that different people come into my life in different seasons for different reasons. With the que sera sera mindset, I am able to contribute to the lives of others and not be disappointed. Service life longer. Goodie.
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