Some technicalities of dating

How would I narrow down choices to go out with so dating is productive and healthy?

During this year, I am basically open to meeting anyone as long as they are not from FCC and if there is a certain kind of connection via email or chats. And they mustn't be butch. Regarding connection, I am not referring to romantic chemistry. It's a sense of whether we are able to keep a conversation going before we even meet.

Why not from FCC? 1) I already know most of the gals and know if we are compatible or not Moreover, we meet and talk almost every week, so there needn't be a deliberate meet up. Some things, you just know. Also I meet up with plushies individually quite regularly. 2) I think it's complicated when a couple attends the same church and things don't work out. I have decided that unless I am very sure about being with someone, I wouldn't attempt being in a relationship.

Why not butch? Hmmmm.. I won't rule that out completely but it's unlikely i would date a butch unless there is somethig special about them. The x factor.

Yep. I am kinda excited actually.
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