Starting from the March hols, I shall go on a date once a week. Of course, I am predicting that the run won't end so soon since it takes me a lot to be attracted to someone.
I am not looking for anyone actually. Of course I desire to be in a relationship with someone special, but I know I am not ready at this point in time. I had said that I will be relationship free for a year to focus on God and on improving myself as a person. Taking the time to date/hang out with just one person to get to know them better also helps me to know myself better and makes me more certain about what I desire from my next partner. So one different date per week or two or three. So we will hang out and I shall deliberately converse in a way that will help me find out if that person is suitable or not and why or why not. I shall journal the lessons learnt from every date, specifically in the area of relationship/dating lessons.
See, I have never really dated before. As in, I have never dated in a way that would give me a chance to evaluate fairly if that person is really unsuitable for me. Usually it's out of bias that I decided to go out with that person. Because I am highly intuitive when it comes to people, I could sense almost immediately if someone's suitable for me (without knowing how they look)(and of course, I make mistakes, but sometimes, i just know), and when I sense that they may be interested, I shut them off either before they ask me out, or when they ask me out.
This will be fun and educational. Of course, so that the other party will not get hurt, I will have to make it a one date thingy (unless unless) and make it clear if I am not interested in anything more than just a friend.
I think it might work. Shall try it out.
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