Tuesday, August 2, 2011

What if the ex has changed for the better?

One of my exes has changed so much I barely recognized her. Someone asked me over dinner sometime last week if I would get back with her since I thought she has changed so much after the break up and changed for the better I must say. 

My response to her question was pretty general. I told her that the only thing that caused me to decide that it's better for us to be just friends was because it felt like we were just friends. There was nothing unattractive about her before that would cause me to consider a break up. I loved her just the way she was, except for the fact that I didn't feel like we were in a relationship. Then the friend asked: what if she has also changed in that way that she could make you feel like you are the most special person on earth. Well, I can't really answer that question now, can I? But she has changed so much in the past few months I hardly know her. Who I was attracted to before seems foreign now.

Which brings me to this point: that special someone need not be perfect. Romantic love to me is when and where two hearts connect at that level of compatibility.

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