the past year had been a year of not being welcoming to new peeps and not following up with them. Honestly, it feels horrible and it's not because it has anything to do with me. But I don't think God intends for us to live like that. I think being warm, loving and affectionate to people is what God wants, but since people in our circle will misunderstand, then what to do? Pull back lor. I won't want to be accused again of being overfriendly. Hospitality was ranked my top spiritual gift after taking the test. WHat will God think?
Yet in the past year of not doing anything much, I have someone who hinted that I am her type. I don't like being presumptous. I could see it as it is and just take it that she's just giving an example of the type of woman she's attracted to, but to avoid any unneccessary problems in future, I had to tell her that I hope I don't give her the wrong impression about my friendliness. And blah blah blah. And she got it. sigh sigh sigh.
Having a hospitality ministry is good. You get to wear name tags to say that you are a welcoming team member so peeps do no misunderstand. Onward christian soldiers!
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You see, even when you try not to be too friendly, also got people hint that you are their type! :)
That's why i say ugly also got people wan worh...lol
Ok you know i'm just kidding, right? ;)
My point is that you may just be the type that some gay women like and whether you are warm and friendly or much toned down, you will still have to deal with the attention. So don't let those comments traumatize you for too long, ya? Look forward to seeing the full and free Shen...with a name tag! :)
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