Thursday, March 12, 2009

the talk around badminton

Badminton is fast becoming the game of the season for a few of us. At badminton tonight, the gals spoke about being single and the benefits of being single. Yeh. What's not good about being single, especially when you have friends who love and care for you and who takes an interest in your life?

What is the tipping point really, that will make one decide whether they want to be in a relationship or not? Someone to hold? Someone to love romantically? Someone you can be intimate with? Although all of that is important, I do think that love, care, support and a listening ear from good friends who take an interest in your life and well being pretty much makes one contented.

Someone used to share with me the question she would ask herself to help her decide if she is ready to be in a relationship. " Am I ready to let this person break my heart?" Such a simple question, yet so profound.

TIll I develop my own question, this question is a good gauge for now.
.

No comments: