Saturday, January 3, 2009

why no to pre-marital sex

A friend was just chatting with me on that post about the catholic church when she explained why the catholic church would never relent and why the church says no to pre-marital sex.

1) the first point is about abstainance from sex helps you to know your partner better(which we all know)

2) this type of discipline strengthens us in times of temptations with our spouse or partner. She further elaborated by saying that if people jump into the sack to give in to their desires, and when the couple has problems and a 3rd party comes in,the person will not have the strength to resist.

The second reason makes much sense.

So if I have bad self-control, it means the likelyhood of me getting into an affair is higher? :( That's bad hor.

but what is the definition of sex anyway? Going all the way? I dictionary.com-ed the word sex, there were 15 definitions and none gave the details I needed. Their explanation just went as far as sexual intercourse. Sigh.
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