although it's my preference to have a closure face to face, breaking up over email has to be done sometimes too.
A break up over email is necessary when
1) the party unwilling to break up will get emotional and distressed and tries to persuade the other to stay or give the relationship another try
a) if indoors, hold on to her and not let her go till she agrees to try again
b) if outdoors, either insist on sending her home and then something physical happens in the car/ reacting in a way that the conversation will have to be brought indoors where a) will happen again.
Intially, I had wanted to maintain the mindset that God sees all, and He knows all, and that is all that matters.
But I am irritated that people are telling me to meet up with her to talk things over, like they know better.
They obviously have not broken up this way before.
She thinks I am cruel and not very nice. I say good. Then grow up and move on.
Damned pissed.
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