firstly, the kids are having their Prelims so that means we have got to stay back everyday till 6p.m. to mark. That also means we have to mark some more after 6p.m.
Tonight's badminton with the usuals. Tomorrow's badminton with my badminton partner before leading worship for CG and possibly leading prayer too. Wednesday might be tennising with the SH, Thursday I have some alone time and Friday should be catching a show with the SH. In between all of that, i have to set aside time to listen to the songs and practise, practise and practise. Saturday will be Ezering and then rehearsing for Sunday's worship session and Sunday's the worst!
Rehearsal for service, service, lunch, inter-cg gathering, doggie party and then dinner with some peeps! Crazy Sunday! Crazy week!
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Monday, August 23, 2010
Saturday, August 21, 2010
and so I finally got my third and last jab..
I love Fridays, when the SH has to work till 7ish as usual and I have time to spare before I meet her. Fridays are the days I would take the jabs for HPV so I have time to rest over the weekend without taking medical leave just in case I suffer a reaction to the jab. I was supposed to take the final jab in mid June but ended up procrastinating (play for worship, important events, fell sick, no time to see the doc, etc etc)
So.. after guitar lessons (where I got to jam with mel for about half an hour because we made our time overlap), I went to the gym with my gym buddy. It has been a long time. It was a good catch up, plus it's very pleasant because he's unusually positive. I think he's someone I can share my heart with.. and I think it's because he is very open about his life. I appreciate that heaps. THen I headed to the clinic and queued up for about half an hour before my turn. Good that I had the papers with me.
my arm felt unusually sore after this jab though. The area around the jab was swollen and hard this morning. Googled "Swollen after HPV" using my Iphone when I was still on my bed. Appears that it's normal. So I am glad. Yay! I am still alive after all the jabs! I am thankful!
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So.. after guitar lessons (where I got to jam with mel for about half an hour because we made our time overlap), I went to the gym with my gym buddy. It has been a long time. It was a good catch up, plus it's very pleasant because he's unusually positive. I think he's someone I can share my heart with.. and I think it's because he is very open about his life. I appreciate that heaps. THen I headed to the clinic and queued up for about half an hour before my turn. Good that I had the papers with me.
my arm felt unusually sore after this jab though. The area around the jab was swollen and hard this morning. Googled "Swollen after HPV" using my Iphone when I was still on my bed. Appears that it's normal. So I am glad. Yay! I am still alive after all the jabs! I am thankful!
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badminton
aiya.. forgot to log in to book on Wednesday night, yesterday and today! By now, there is only 1 court available on Thursday. There are courts on Monday and Wednesday though. Hopefully the rest can make it. I wanted to play tomorrow morning! But no courts. Bleah!
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Thursday, August 19, 2010
insightful information from msn.com
and I am impressed.. because I thought they are mostly crap. I think while this article should not be used as a justification for why people cheat, it is good information for everyone so that they know what is important to a woman and how to be a better partner in a relationship.
Heard news about another couple who broke up. Not because anyone cheated. It's just sad.
Here are 10 reasons why women cheat.
1) She wants to change you
It's no secret that some women often attempt to change their man and sometimes they have unusual ways of doing it. One method, says Quilliam, is to have an affair.
"She may feel that you don't take her seriously or that she cannot get through to you. This could possibly lead to her having an affair. She could use it as a way of communicating to you that you need to get your finger out and start doing what she wants."
2) If you're constantly letting her down she'll no longer view you as an equal or someone she respects
When her life has changed
Quilliam says that some women are often driven into another man's arms without their partner doing anything wrong. It's simply a case of, "it's not you, it's me."
"If there has been a dramatic change in her life, she might have an affair," says Quilliam. "Maybe because she feels like her life has come to an end or that she has gone through a highly emotional experience. She might have an affair to compensate the shift in her life to make it mean more."
3) If she's disappointed in you
If your partner feels that you're constantly letting her down or that you're not the man she originally thought you were, she might find someone who she believes is more worthy of her attention, says Quilliam.
"She may have lost all respect for you - maybe because you're not good at your job or that you're a terrible father. If she's doing well and you're not, she won't see you as an equal. She might see you as someone she no longer admires or respects. It's tough, but it's one of the main reasons why women have affairs."
4) Exit strategy
"This is a very interesting one because not only can an affair end a relationship, but it can also be used as a transition into another," says Quilliam.
"She knows that if she has an affair with someone meaningless then you'll just walk away, leaving her single. But she might feel that she needs another relationship to go to before she splits up with you, so she might choose her next prey wisely before she goes in for the kill."
5) Losing that spark in your relationship could lead to her searching for excitement elsewhere
She's bored of the relationship
Quilliam says that she receives a large number of letters from women who want to have an affair because their current relationship has gone sour. She says: "The relationship can be going on for years and, as time goes on, it starts to lose its spark.
"She might have an opportunistic affair, where she'll come across someone that she finds good-looking and exciting - either at work or at a bar - and may decide right there on the spot that she'll have an affair."
6) Ego boost
"For some women, as with some men, their ego needs constant stroking and boosting," says Spurr. "You can rarely give enough if a woman has such high maintenance needs. This is probably much more about her - and her emotional make-up - than you!
"She'll have an affair because she just loves the thrill of the passion and subterfuge. She relishes the way he makes her feel - and knowing she also has you to come home to. Until she sorts herself out, one man may rarely be enough."
7) Jealousy
If you're fortunate enough to be blessed with good genes and, as a result, receive a lot of attention from other women, it's possible that your partner may have an affair to make the point that you're not the only one who can turn heads.
"It isn't a matter of revenge, but rather her making the point that she is attractive too," says Susan. "She is making that point to herself as well as to you."
8) Neglecting her is most likely to cause her to seek attention from someone else
She feels neglected
"Don't underestimate how much feelings of neglect can drive a woman to make a bad choice and seek attention from another man," says Spurr. "Obviously it's always better for her to tell you clearly when she feels neglected but sometimes us women are guilty of believing that men are mind-readers.
"We think that you'll soon realise at some level that you're neglecting us. For some women it then becomes a case of, "fair enough, if you're going to neglect me, I'll have a fling."
9) A lack of sexual satisfaction will make her question your loyalty and your feelings for her
Sexually unsatisfied
Unlike men, who are more likely to have an affair in order to fulfil their sexual needs, women take a more emotional approach by questioning their partner's low sex drive and often taking it personally, says Susan Quilliam, author of the book The New Joy Of Sex (published by Mitchell Beazley).
"Women put much more thought into emotional gratification," says Quilliam. "Whereas men are more likely to have an affair if they're sexually dissatisfied, women will question their partner's loyalty or assume that their man isn't in love with them anymore because they're no longer having sex." This could possibly lead to her seeking comfort in someone else's arms.
10) Revenge
"She might plunge into a 'revenge-fling' as payback if you've had an affair yourself or hurt her badly in some way," says relationship expert Dr Pam Spurr (www.drpam.co.uk). "Revenge-flings are almost always impulsive and she'll probably end up regretting it.
"It's the power of those painful feelings you've brought about in her, though, that get in the way of any rational thinking. I never recommend a revenge-fling as a way forward - two wrongs definitely don't make things right in a relationship that's been rocked by your previous affair or hurtful behaviour."
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Heard news about another couple who broke up. Not because anyone cheated. It's just sad.
Here are 10 reasons why women cheat.
1) She wants to change you
It's no secret that some women often attempt to change their man and sometimes they have unusual ways of doing it. One method, says Quilliam, is to have an affair.
"She may feel that you don't take her seriously or that she cannot get through to you. This could possibly lead to her having an affair. She could use it as a way of communicating to you that you need to get your finger out and start doing what she wants."
2) If you're constantly letting her down she'll no longer view you as an equal or someone she respects
When her life has changed
Quilliam says that some women are often driven into another man's arms without their partner doing anything wrong. It's simply a case of, "it's not you, it's me."
"If there has been a dramatic change in her life, she might have an affair," says Quilliam. "Maybe because she feels like her life has come to an end or that she has gone through a highly emotional experience. She might have an affair to compensate the shift in her life to make it mean more."
3) If she's disappointed in you
If your partner feels that you're constantly letting her down or that you're not the man she originally thought you were, she might find someone who she believes is more worthy of her attention, says Quilliam.
"She may have lost all respect for you - maybe because you're not good at your job or that you're a terrible father. If she's doing well and you're not, she won't see you as an equal. She might see you as someone she no longer admires or respects. It's tough, but it's one of the main reasons why women have affairs."
4) Exit strategy
"This is a very interesting one because not only can an affair end a relationship, but it can also be used as a transition into another," says Quilliam.
"She knows that if she has an affair with someone meaningless then you'll just walk away, leaving her single. But she might feel that she needs another relationship to go to before she splits up with you, so she might choose her next prey wisely before she goes in for the kill."
5) Losing that spark in your relationship could lead to her searching for excitement elsewhere
She's bored of the relationship
Quilliam says that she receives a large number of letters from women who want to have an affair because their current relationship has gone sour. She says: "The relationship can be going on for years and, as time goes on, it starts to lose its spark.
"She might have an opportunistic affair, where she'll come across someone that she finds good-looking and exciting - either at work or at a bar - and may decide right there on the spot that she'll have an affair."
6) Ego boost
"For some women, as with some men, their ego needs constant stroking and boosting," says Spurr. "You can rarely give enough if a woman has such high maintenance needs. This is probably much more about her - and her emotional make-up - than you!
"She'll have an affair because she just loves the thrill of the passion and subterfuge. She relishes the way he makes her feel - and knowing she also has you to come home to. Until she sorts herself out, one man may rarely be enough."
7) Jealousy
If you're fortunate enough to be blessed with good genes and, as a result, receive a lot of attention from other women, it's possible that your partner may have an affair to make the point that you're not the only one who can turn heads.
"It isn't a matter of revenge, but rather her making the point that she is attractive too," says Susan. "She is making that point to herself as well as to you."
8) Neglecting her is most likely to cause her to seek attention from someone else
She feels neglected
"Don't underestimate how much feelings of neglect can drive a woman to make a bad choice and seek attention from another man," says Spurr. "Obviously it's always better for her to tell you clearly when she feels neglected but sometimes us women are guilty of believing that men are mind-readers.
"We think that you'll soon realise at some level that you're neglecting us. For some women it then becomes a case of, "fair enough, if you're going to neglect me, I'll have a fling."
9) A lack of sexual satisfaction will make her question your loyalty and your feelings for her
Sexually unsatisfied
Unlike men, who are more likely to have an affair in order to fulfil their sexual needs, women take a more emotional approach by questioning their partner's low sex drive and often taking it personally, says Susan Quilliam, author of the book The New Joy Of Sex (published by Mitchell Beazley).
"Women put much more thought into emotional gratification," says Quilliam. "Whereas men are more likely to have an affair if they're sexually dissatisfied, women will question their partner's loyalty or assume that their man isn't in love with them anymore because they're no longer having sex." This could possibly lead to her seeking comfort in someone else's arms.
10) Revenge
"She might plunge into a 'revenge-fling' as payback if you've had an affair yourself or hurt her badly in some way," says relationship expert Dr Pam Spurr (www.drpam.co.uk). "Revenge-flings are almost always impulsive and she'll probably end up regretting it.
"It's the power of those painful feelings you've brought about in her, though, that get in the way of any rational thinking. I never recommend a revenge-fling as a way forward - two wrongs definitely don't make things right in a relationship that's been rocked by your previous affair or hurtful behaviour."
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Wednesday, August 18, 2010
I only want this as much as you do
Don't walk ahead of me
When you turn back
I might have walked away
Walk with me
Constantly, consistently
Until I am rested in your love
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When you turn back
I might have walked away
Walk with me
Constantly, consistently
Until I am rested in your love
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Plans for 2010
and so I was very excited about Development Psychology, more excited than any other plans and possibilities that I had been thinking of.. but it seems as if it is only available for MOE teachers and MOE teachers can only take that course on a part-time basis. Bleah. Which means I have to remain in teaching. The intake for next year is in August.
Remaining in the teaching service prolly means I won't be able to go for the Hillsong conference next year. And taking the course on a part-time basis means I won't be able to resign from teaching for 3 years, which means I might not be able to go for the Hillsong Conference for 3 years. But V is right. If I am meant to go, God will make a way, a way that may even mean that I do not need to resign from the service.
Studying while I am employed also reduces the course fees a great deal.. Ah well.. is this the hand I have been dealt for now? Lord, I know you are good and you have the best decisions for me, like what I have shared during CG I need to wait on you and for you to work and not take matters into my own hands.
Gotto wait and see.
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Remaining in the teaching service prolly means I won't be able to go for the Hillsong conference next year. And taking the course on a part-time basis means I won't be able to resign from teaching for 3 years, which means I might not be able to go for the Hillsong Conference for 3 years. But V is right. If I am meant to go, God will make a way, a way that may even mean that I do not need to resign from the service.
Studying while I am employed also reduces the course fees a great deal.. Ah well.. is this the hand I have been dealt for now? Lord, I know you are good and you have the best decisions for me, like what I have shared during CG I need to wait on you and for you to work and not take matters into my own hands.
Gotto wait and see.
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so I cut the kids' hair
I felt a little sorry for the gal because she was tearing even before I cut her hair. I ended up cutting just a lil and spoke to her for a while regarding what she was supposed to do.
Both of them are repentant, so I guess cutting their hair works. Not that they had not been warned.. Sometimes, they just need a kick on their butts!
As for me, I cut children's hair for the first time in 10 years! :)
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Both of them are repentant, so I guess cutting their hair works. Not that they had not been warned.. Sometimes, they just need a kick on their butts!
As for me, I cut children's hair for the first time in 10 years! :)
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